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HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: May 25, 2012 7:59:48 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse I'm definitely NOT an expert but I thought we(GBs) could all put our ideas to make our lives a happier place!

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I'm definitely NOT an expert but I thought we(GBs) could all put our ideas
to make our lives a happier place!

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forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Jun 19, 2013 9:30:04 AM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Good morning Hell and posters, This may be a key to long life together. Read in a medical journal, a joke or funny story at the start of your day, makes your day go better. Along with sharing and laughing with your partner. So here is one and let us know if it does work: True story! I just saw a picture of thumper, the rabbit from Bambi, it reminded me of my girl friend, who 20 years ago, had inked her upper left breast with thumper; the ink master said it was not a good idea, but did it as she insisted. Well thumper now has the longest ears ever. Of course she now wishes she listened. Have a good day.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Jun 18, 2013 9:12:17 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Marriage resembles a pair of shears , so joined that they cannot be separated ; often moving in opposite directions , yet always punishing any one who comes between them.
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Jun 16, 2013 10:32:43 AM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Happy Daddy Day Hell, and all the other men. A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" Father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Jun 15, 2013 9:42:35 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Good evening Hell, good evening Buddies. You both can go for a walk, make it a regular walk date with your spouse or partner and use the time to discuss issues without distractions. Go in good weather and I found going in the rain, brings you closer to your partner in the actual sense, neither of you want to get wet, so you get closer. Don't expect results right away, take your time, the issues did not pop up they took time to build; so take time to tear it down one layer at a time. Remember, you may be ready to talk and iron things out, but your partner may not to ready or even willing to talk, for what ever reason. It is all good, if you come with a positive openness. Again take your time. It took God seven days to create Earth so it may take you seven walking dates to work on your issues one layer at a time.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Jun 12, 2013 9:08:34 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse One has not gained a husband, and the other has not gained a wife , but both have gained lifelong mates.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Jun 3, 2013 1:07:34 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Marry only for love.
pupule777 Veteran Author New Hampshire Posts:409 Points:105,690 Joined:Jan 2013	Message Posted: Jun 1, 2013 9:48:12 AM Ignore pupule777 Report Abuse always try to thank your spouse for the little things ( & the big things too) that they do. Try NEVER to take hin/her for granted. Tell him/her at you love them daily !!
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: May 27, 2013 9:10:48 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Hell, you are right. Saring a long weekend together can help keep a marriage strong by allowing more time to be together. Unless you right at each other necks, now that one is for another post. Hope you all had a long Momerial long weekend and Sunday blessings also. [Edited by: forty-niner at 5/27/2013 10:17:56 PM EST]
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: May 21, 2013 2:30:54 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse A successful marriage depends on two things :(1) finding the right person & (2) Being the right person.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: May 18, 2013 11:53:00 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse So true 9er!
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: May 16, 2013 11:14:34 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse 63pioneer, why do you say, 'None, it's too late for me!' What is too late? You are still breathing, your heart is beating... [Edited by: forty-niner at 5/17/2013 12:20:43 AM EST]
63pioneer Champion Author Texas Posts:6,760 Points:84,830 Joined:Feb 2012	Message Posted: May 13, 2013 8:08:08 AM Ignore 63pioneer Report Abuse None, it's too late for me!
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: May 9, 2013 11:49:32 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Don't be afraid to show weakness- vulnerability brings you close.
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 4:00:16 AM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse How about a couple of slices of toast too{:>)
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 3:57:27 AM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse First thing in the morning a warm hug and a couple of kisses or make a pot of coffee, that would be what I would like, a pot of coffee.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 12:46:14 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Be true to yourself & you cannot be false to anyone.
MotherG Champion Author San Antonio Posts:3,224 Points:616,355 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Apr 20, 2013 12:31:24 AM Ignore MotherG Report Abuse such great advice here.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Apr 9, 2013 12:00:32 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse A successful marriage depends on 2 things : 1 -Finding the right person & 2-Being the right person.
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Apr 8, 2013 11:33:00 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Have a good night and keep each other warm with the temp falling to -15c and the windchill feels like -27c you need some extra warmth. But you do not have to have an excuse to be together. Have a good week Hell and company{>:)
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Apr 7, 2013 7:20:43 AM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Good morning Hellrazor and company! Sunday Blessings and make it a family day, so important in todays hurry, hurry and hurry, never enough time, never enough sleep, never enough money. yet always more then enough Bills and more Bills, they never end.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Apr 3, 2013 11:08:32 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Always retain the ability to laugh at yourself.
PhilT08 Champion Author Buffalo Posts:2,108 Points:123,285 Joined:Oct 2008	Message Posted: Mar 31, 2013 5:54:25 PM Ignore PhilT08 Report Abuse When she is talking to her friend and throws you under the bus for something you didn't know you did right in front of you just remember........she is going through menopause. not sure if our marriage will survive this but I have been keeping my mouth shut and trying very hard to be understanding.
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Mar 30, 2013 11:18:56 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Hellrazor, one plus one makes three, four, sometimes five and six. My Gran told me to remember that the first baby comes at any time. All the rest usually take nine months.
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Mar 30, 2013 11:14:55 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Go to church together, as Hellrazor posted and say a prayer to each other. Then go for coffee, while drinking coffee, look into each other's eyes, smile and hold hands. Then take her for a walk, remember to keep holding her hands and smile a lot. Hellrazor and all buddies who post here, Easter Blessings.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Mar 26, 2013 10:29:42 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Be sue to tell one another how much you love each other at every opportunity - or rest assured, someone else will!
Daddio32118 Rookie Author Florida Posts:67 Points:529,060 Joined:May 2011	Message Posted: Mar 21, 2013 12:36:56 PM Ignore Daddio32118 Report Abuse communicate
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:21:43 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse When you're right be silent, and when your wrong ,admit it straightaway.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Mar 10, 2013 10:12:47 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Couples who pray together stay together.
PhilT08 Champion Author Buffalo Posts:2,108 Points:123,285 Joined:Oct 2008	Message Posted: Mar 7, 2013 6:55:31 PM Ignore PhilT08 Report Abuse Take her out to eat once a week, things got rough and she complained she wanted to feel wanted again and wanted me to date her again.....I ignored that for a long time but gave in and went out to eat, what a change in just 3 weeks of going out to eat once a week. I don't get why it is so important to have a QUOTE DATE but I am not even gonna ask. in my eyes if I wanted a date I would get a girlfriend.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Mar 7, 2013 10:16:24 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Marriage is one plus one equals one.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Mar 4, 2013 10:32:24 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse To the husband:Hug & Squeeze her daily ...and if her daily wont go along with it,try the au pair!
fpdad Sophomore Author Buffalo Posts:188 Points:30,525 Joined:Feb 2013	Message Posted: Mar 3, 2013 5:21:30 PM Ignore fpdad Report Abuse Don't ignore the little problems!! Just finishing up a divorce after 23yrs of marriage and in the end ignoring all the little problems became too much to overcome....
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Mar 3, 2013 3:00:58 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Send her flowers 4 no reason
kylejetta13tdi Rookie Author Michigan Posts:38 Points:36,375 Joined:Feb 2013	Message Posted: Feb 27, 2013 9:22:11 PM Ignore kylejetta13tdi Report Abuse Just say, "Yes Dear"
drunkhabib Champion Author North Carolina Posts:20,690 Points:2,982,495 Joined:Oct 2003	Message Posted: Feb 27, 2013 8:44:00 PM Ignore drunkhabib Report Abuse keep a trustworthy friend on the side
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Feb 27, 2013 5:37:56 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse There is no more lovely ,friendly & charming relationship, communion,or company than a good marriage. Martin Luther
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Feb 24, 2013 10:23:15 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Be best friends.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Feb 19, 2013 12:47:04 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Genesis 2:24 New International Version (NIV) That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
MotherG Champion Author San Antonio Posts:3,224 Points:616,355 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Feb 19, 2013 3:17:33 AM Ignore MotherG Report Abuse in word or deed, express your love daily
MotherG Champion Author San Antonio Posts:3,224 Points:616,355 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Feb 15, 2013 3:41:06 PM Ignore MotherG Report Abuse Learn how to keep your mouth shut and when to
MotherG Champion Author San Antonio Posts:3,224 Points:616,355 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Feb 11, 2013 8:46:04 PM Ignore MotherG Report Abuse Don't go to bed angry. You never know... Start each day with a smile & a kiss.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Feb 9, 2013 9:44:18 PM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse From this day froward ,You will not walk alone. My heart will your shelter , And my arms will be your home.
forty-niner Champion Author Winnipeg Posts:28,978 Points:2,408,010 Joined:Jul 2006	Message Posted: Feb 8, 2013 3:23:18 PM Ignore forty-niner Report Abuse Don't dig up old arguments, because chances are it will cause another argument. Let them die. Good afternoon Have a good weekend!
MotherG Champion Author San Antonio Posts:3,224 Points:616,355 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Feb 5, 2013 9:08:12 PM Ignore MotherG Report Abuse be honest
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Feb 1, 2013 8:23:58 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse The giving must always exceed the taking.
freedom27 Champion Author Calgary Posts:2,417 Points:312,895 Joined:Aug 2005	Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 10:23:13 AM Ignore freedom27 Report Abuse Shower together to save water.
HELLRAZOR Champion Author Las Vegas Posts:7,764 Points:1,107,725 Joined:Jan 2010	Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 9:28:15 AM Ignore HELLRAZOR Report Abuse Keep a short account of wrongs.
cherrylynn18 All-Star Author Tampa Posts:838 Points:213,445 Joined:Aug 2012	Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 8:08:56 AM Ignore cherrylynn18 Report Abuse My husband is the boss and he has my permission to say so.
gravie314 All-Star Author South Carolina Posts:790 Points:281,825 Joined:May 2008	Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 6:31:11 AM Ignore gravie314 Report Abuse I tell everyone the secret to a good marriage is to die young.
MotherG Champion Author San Antonio Posts:3,224 Points:616,355 Joined:Apr 2011	Message Posted: Jan 31, 2013 2:24:06 AM Ignore MotherG Report Abuse pray together